By extension, then, it is futile to try to be 'generous' or 'kind' or 'defensive when family is attacked', because such attempts preempt performance (i.e. performance of oneself), and frankly, this world, with its consumerism and charity-complexes and general want of human connection, is sufficiently insincere without adding to it the prosaic, uninspiring performances of selves that we have to lay daily on each other.
Totally Hegelian 'human reality needs other-recognition' organisation of society. I have a point here, and it probably has to do with altogether quitting the use of adjectives/other-description (which in some cases must surely come under pure old Gossip), or stripping away the ego part of ourselves that performs, performs, performs even when we're not aware of performing, or simply arghthisisfuckedupwegottadosomething.
We gotta do something.
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